What is the better path, having one group of friends that you're really close with or having a lot of friends, with only a few people you're really close with? Personally, I feel like i'm in a situation where I've expanded myself to all the cliques of Kearney, but i still only hold a few close friends whom i can really share myself with. Sometimes i really with i could be closer with more people outside of my normal group of friends, but given time constraints, I need to invest my time in other matters.
Maybe after college applications are finished and after the Academics tone down, I can work on hanging out with those people. I really do respect them, and I would like to get closer.
Not that there's anything wrong with my current group of friends; they're the funniest most understanding people I know. Even though there's some clash between me and a certain female best friend right now, I still love and respect my current group.
I guess I'm just saying that I naturally like to talk with and get to know people i don't know as well. This is also why i look forward to going to college; I'm going to experience so many things that I wouldn't be able to experience at home, and I'll meet so many new people.
But I digress. I think that there's a mindset you can be in where you can make a lot of friends, and be close with a lot of friends. Fortunately, I think that I am currently in this mindset
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